One of the things I hate most of all is bullying. Some people have no idea how badly this could affect someone. Yes, I have been bullied in school, and it is not a nice feeling at all. All the name calling, getting shoved into lockers, you know, things like that. I really wish that this could stop; it can get way out of control.
One way you could try and prevent bullying is to not even take in anything that the bully is doing to you. When they come up to you just walk away. Sometimes that says you don’t care what they are doing to you, and if the bully sees that then they might just stop. They are only bullying people for the fun of it, for their own pleasure.
There is more then one type of bullying; there is physical, and cyber. When someone physically bullies you, they try to do it when no one is around, so there won’t be any proof that they actually are being bullies. And if you try and tell someone, the bully will most likely deny it. I have tried many times to say that I have been bullied, and when I get the bully involved they would just deny it. Sometimes people will believe you, then other times they won’t, that’s where life gets a little harder.
Cyber-bullying is another thing. You would actually have proof of getting bullied. I’m not saying that more people should get into cyber-bullying; I’m just saying that you would actually have proof. Honestly, I think there is more cyber-bullying then any other kind of bullying. And more people do it because they are just hiding behind a computer instead of saying things to your face. I don’t know about you but that’s what I’d rather have happen. Because more bad things could happen if they just come up to you and say it to your face. But this is what I would rather have happen… If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.
I have been in one fight my whole life, no I’m not proud of it, and I shouldn’t have gotten into it in the first place. But I really wanted to because the bully was picking on my best friend. And I can’t stand to see her get hurt. Whenever someone is picking on my friends I always try and solve the problem between them. I know I shouldn’t, it’s not my business, but I can’t help it. It’s just the way I am.
Sometimes when someone gets bullied, it doesn’t end well. People that get bullied could go into bullying themselves; they may think that it’s okay to bully someone because someone is bullying them.
It isn’t kids/teens who only get bullied; it’s adults also, just like peer pressure happens with adults too. But it’s not the exact same kind of bullying as kids, it can be worse, or not as bad as it is with kids.
Bullying is not a funny thing. It can hurt people so bad that they are actually scared to go out in public. Why does it have to get that bad? Why does it even have to happen? I wish I could do something about it; I really want to help to prevent bullying. I just need to find out how.
