Who’s to judge by the color of your hair, the kind of clothes you wear? Your body type, your facial features? No one should judge you by the way you look and how you do things. Maybe you do things differently than other people do, but that doesn’t mean that you have to judge one another. That’s just wrong on so many levels.
Yes, I have been judged many times before for my body shape and the clothes that I wear and I let them get to me. I would go home and just cry until I fell asleep. I am a very self-conscious kind of person and can’t take getting made fun of as jokes. When someone calls me any kind of mean name, I let it get to me. I can’t just brush it off and let it go. That’s not how I am.
People need to learn that not everyone can take jokes that easily. I am trying so hard to loosen up and let things like that just brush past me, but honestly I don’t know if I can or not. It gets really hard sometimes. If it’s not that bad of a judgment then usually I just let it go, however if it happens again I just lose it and break down crying.
It was really bad for me in elementary school. People always made fun of me because I was different. Yes, I will admit I was overweight in elementary school, but I don’t care about the past anymore, I’m trying to move past that.
Some people don’t understand how judging others could affect them. That is one thing that I don’t understand… Honestly I think it’s stupid how people treat those who don’t fit in with their crowd. You should treat them with respect. Don’t disrespect others just because they are different than you.
Everyone is special in his or her own way, that isn’t a bad thing at all. People need to learn that everything doesn’t revolve around them. Everyone does things differently and that is what makes them special. Being different can make other people jealous. I bet that’s what it is… People only make fun of you because they are jealous of you, and what you have. So try and not let it get to you, that just puts more stress on you and they are trying to make you look weak. Just don’t fall for it.
Judging is just another form of bullying. No one likes it besides the people who do it. Even some of them don’t like it, but they just get so bored that the only thing they can think about is judging other people. I don’t understand how people can get that bored that they have to pick on others. Read a book or play video games, watch a movie or something. Just don’t go out and pick on people for your own pleasure. It’s rude, and mean. I’m sure parents don’t raise their kids to be mean when they get older.
What do you do in your spare time? Do you pick on people, read, write, or watch a movie? I really hope that it is one of the last three. If it is, you are one of my heroes. I look up to people that don’t bully or judge people. So please, be one of them that doesn’t!
